October 25, 2011

Does the type of wedding you have set the tone for your marriage?  In terms of whether the wedding is a temple wedding or a civil wedding I think it makes big difference, a temple wedding is, in my opinion the best way to start a marriage.  However, in terms of what kind of reception you have I don't think that matters as much.  More important than what is planned for the reception is how it is planned.  The things that will set the tone for a marriage are making sure that both individuals needs and wants are met and conflicts and disagreements are effectively solved and worked through.  These are things that will come up in marriage again and again so being able to deal with them effectively in the begining is critical.